To Marry a Beautiful Woman

Beautiful women grace the covers of these chinese calendars. They are in front of backdrops of famous places, like the Eiffel Tower, or the Great Wall of China. They have smooth, porcelain skin, and perfect body figures, and of course they smile with stunning sets of teeth.


Looking at these pictures ignites desire, a type of longing for the woman shown. The eye is drawn to her image, like a bee to honey, but these images can not satisfy. A woman may be an object of desire, with perfect hips and full red lips, but her body is mostly a distraction.


Women often have power over men. Their bodies are something that a man desires and craves to possess, and men will often do a woman's perfect bidding, just on the subconcious hope of possessing her. This presents a dangerous situation, which women often must bear the brunt of.


A woman is more than just a sex symbol. A woman is a companion for life, and like any good companion, may contribute to the relationship in a number of ways. Men, especially young men, often want the woman as sex-symbol first, and companion second, while women often wish for the companion first, and only then do they allow themselves to be possessed.


The longer a woman, then, waits before allowing a man to penetrate her, the more respect the man will have for her. This is why sex inside of marriage was so important. If a man can get sex early, and often, before making a complete commitment to a woman, then he never will. The sacrament of marriage, without sex beforehand, creates in the man a desire to have responsibility for his wife and his family. To get marries is to make a promise, to swear before one's god, that they will protect and cherish their wife and family, in exchange for the sex that they desire. And at that point, a man is transformed from a wolf who only wants a sexual relationship, to a man who needs companionship.


The man who must wait for marriage before entering a woman takes this decision much more seriously than a man who may penetrate a girl after a round of drinks and good times. He then considers his future wife with much more caution, and much more honesty and candor, than he ever would have before. This changes the dynamic. A woman who is simply a sultry seductress may hold a man's interest for a time, but will never make a man happy as a companion. And in marriage, a man suddenly grows the desire to seek a companion who he is also sexually attracted to, for in the years when appearance fades by the wayside, the companionship will remain, and will make for a happy marriage.